Feeling Hopeless

Letter: "I do not know why I'm writing this - it really is so unlike me to in fact feel 'hopeless.' I am a single mom raising two teenaged boys. Right after my youngest was assaulted on the way to school last year, I quit a decent job in television to begin my own advertising/p.r. business out of my house. I had two clientele that, at the time, which enabled me to make far more than I had operating for the television station. And then in March, one of the customers and I parted ways. We had really different expectations. Ultimately, we every had contrasting views more than what my role would be. That cut my income in half.

I have attracted one particular new client - but at a third of what my former client paid. And now, I'm in debt (deeply). And now, I'm in debt (deeply), my account is overdrawn simply because hosting ftp my other significant client "got behind" and did not place in my automatic payment into my account until yesterday - and it takes 24-72 hours for it to show up (they had told me it was going to be put in last Thursday)! My ex's kid assistance is late and I do not even have adequate income to spend for groceries till the cash shows up. I'm terrified that checks will bounce and I'll be left with nothing at all.

I can't sleep. My stomach is in knots. I nearly really feel as if my children would be better off with their dad. He's extremely effectively off and could afford to give them everything I cannot.

I do not know how to get out of this poverty mentality. I don't know why I have such feelings of lack when it comes to my finances. Tomorrow I have a meeting with a potential client and I cannot even concentrate on putting together a presentation for him. It's as if I already know that he won't want to perform with me, let alone Pay me. I get so up for issues, I have such excellent expectations and then almost everything falls flat.

In ALL other regions of my lifestyle, I'm doing effectively. My children are terrific - excellent hearts, straight-A students, outstanding athletes. I don't have weight problems.

I don't have difficulties with my relationships with the opposite sex. It is just that Income seems to be slipping out of my grasp.

Very honestly, I do think that income buys a fair amount of happiness. At least for me, being aware of what I've gone via these past years, it would buy some peace of mind. And that's what I want. Freedom and peace of thoughts. To go where I want. To do what I want. To Really feel how I want to feel.

Can you help me get out of this unfavorable spiral?"

A Reader

Rebecca's reply:

"Dear Reader,

Thanks so much for writing. And I hope you are feeling greater. YEP. I've been there a handful of occasions. I can don't forget days when all I could do was walk about the home saying, 'I just want to really feel good' more than and over. At some point, I did commence to feel better. Now, feeling very good ftp services is my dominant feeling.

Actually, you are an exceptional 'attractor'--appear at what you are telling your self about money and then notice how you are attracting much more of the identical.

If I had been coaching you, I would ask you to take a piece of paper, and draw a big letter T on it. Then label the left column I dont want and the correct hand column, I do want.

Very first make a list of every thing you dont want. Just use the letter you sent to me and write down stuff like:

I dont want clients paying me late.

I dont want cheap customers who cant afford to spend what Im worth.

I do not want kid assistance payments to be late.

Get all the negatives OUT of yourself and onto paper.

Then go by way of each and every item, and ask your self, If I dont want this, what do I want? and write down what you DO want in the correct hand column.

When youve written a Do Want for every item on the left, FOLD THE PAPER down the middle so you are searching at the 'Do Want' list. Preserve that list in front of you at all occasions. Commence to imagine what it would really feel like obtaining clients who JOYFULLY spend for your services. How fantastic it is when the Kid Support checks arrive a day early! Function at keeping your Concentrate on what you DO WANT. If you commence to believe or talk about one thing on the Dont Want side, hosted ftp just say, Ive dealt with that, AND what I DO want is

The T-tool is the Greatest Law of Attraction Tool for obtaining clarity! And once you have clarity, what you want IS on its way to you.