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Within the ‘Secret Millionaire’ strategies that I teach my students, clients, and audience members are that you have to avoid the 'If Only’ disease.” You know what I’m referring to, right? You probably know people who have the ‘If Only’ disease. They say, “Oh, if only I resided over there then I’d be wealthy,” or “If only, you know, I learned from this person then, I’d be wealthy.” They could say, “If only my boss believed in me more than, I’d be wealthy,” or “If only I was born on this side of the tracks rather than that side of the tracks, then I’d be wealthy.” Or “If only this or if only that.”

I’m telling you that if you would like to be a millionaire, and if you would like to create wealth for yourself, You have got to eradicate the ‘If Only disease.’ you've got to focus on, “What do I have to do to make it happen?” Here is the key for this, don't focus on excuses, focus on solutions. Here’s why, every and any excuse you ever give yourself on why you're not reaching the wealth status that you want to reach will be right because you'll make it right. You'll justify why you're not getting ahead.

The 'if only' disease is contagious, too. Many friends who have the disease put a strain on those who are trying to accomplish more. Being around people with the disease who state doubt about everything create a sense of worry in you. Therefore, if you want to be happier and want to be positive you have to inoculate yourself against this life draining disease.

The only way to protect yourself is to take these measures:

Dispel the myths of the doubters. When people say 'if only' to you, then squelch their negativity by saying 'regardless.' When you substitute the word regardless, you make the sentence a possibility. For example, the sentence, “If I had more money, only then could I get ahead,” and change it to “Regardless of money, I can get ahead.” You immediately see the possibility.

Cut the infected out of your life. The simplest way to avoid hearing them place doubt and negativity in your life is to stop being with them. Get away. Limit your time with them. Cut them out of your life. Sounds harsh, but it's not your responsibility to bring others up every time. Eventually, you need to say enough is enough.

Fight the 'if only' disease. Fill your life with possibilities. Learn from audio and DVD's how to generate more money. Learn how to budget more effectively. Write a book. Add skills to your resume. Meditate. Pray. Do whatever makes you feel positive.

As soon as you take control to inoculate yourself away from the 'if only' disease, the world is going to change for you. You'll start manifesting possibility that you never dreamed imaginable. You'll become positive and a force that people are attracted to be around. You'll be able to take on more than over and take it on productively.

James Malinchak, Presented on ABC’s Hit Television Show Secret Millionaire, is known as by many experts as the World’s #1 Big Money Speaker Coach and Trainer. For Absolutely free Video Trainings concerning how to receive money to speak and how to be a motivational speaker, go to www.BigMoneySpeaker.com.