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Within the ‘Secret Millionaire’ strategies that I teach my students, clients, as well as audience members are that you must stay away from the 'If Only’ disease.” You know what I’m referring to, right? You probably know people who have the ‘If Only’ disease. They say, “Oh, if only I resided over there then I’d be wealthy,” or “If only, you know, I learned from this person then, I’d be wealthy.” They could say, “If only my boss believed in me more than, I’d be wealthy,” or “If only I was born on this side of the tracks rather than that side of the tracks, then I’d be wealthy.” Or “If only this or if only that.”

I’m telling you that if you want to be a millionaire, and if you would like to build a fortune for yourself, You have got to eradicate the ‘If Only disease.’ you've got to concentrate on, “What do I have to do to make it happen?” Here is the key for this, don't focus on excuses, focus on solutions. Here’s why, every and any excuse you ever give yourself on why you're not reaching the wealth status that you want to reach will be right because you'll make it right. You will justify why you're not getting ahead.

The 'if only' disease is transmittable, too. Several friends who have the disease put a strain on those who're trying to attain more. Being around people with the disease who state doubt about everything create a sense of worry in you. Therefore, if you wish to be happier and want to be positive you need to inoculate yourself against this life draining disease.

The only way to protect yourself is to take these measures:

Dispel the myths of the doubters. When people say 'if only' to you, then squelch their negativity by saying 'regardless.' When you substitute the word regardless, you make the sentence a possibility. For example, the sentence, “If I had more money, only then could I get ahead,” and change it to “Regardless of money, I can get ahead.” You immediately see the possibility.

Cut the infected out of your life. The easiest way to avoid hearing them place doubt and negativity in your life is to stop spending time with them. Get away. Limit your time with them. Cut them out of your life. Sounds harsh, but it is not your responsibility to bring others up all the time. Eventually, you have to say enough is enough.

Fight the 'if only' disease. Fill your life with possibilities. Learn from audio and DVD's how to generate more money. Learn how to budget more effectively. Write a book. Add skills to your resume. Meditate. Pray. Do whatever makes you feel positive.

As soon as you take control to inoculate yourself away from the 'if only' disease, the world is going to change for you. You'll start manifesting possibility that you never dreamed imaginable. You'll become positive and a force that people are attracted to be around. You'll be able to take on more than over and take it on productively.

James Malinchak, Highlighted on ABC’s Hit TV Program Secret Millionaire, is considered by many people specialists as the World’s #1 Big Money Speaker Coach and Trainer. For Free Video Trainings regarding how to get paid to speak and ways to turn into a motivational speaker, have a look at www.BigMoneySpeaker.com.