| − | In element 1 of this series, we examined: "Why am I NOT in a connection with the enjoy of my lifestyle?"<br><br>In Portion two, we'll appear at why a seemingly "perfect partnership" falls apart and how to turn such a disappointment or pain into wonderful private growth.<br><br>So, you made your list of what you want in a guy (or gal) and you attracted THE One. You just know this is THE A single because they seem to fulfill every wish on your list. WOW! You didn't know you had been so powerful, did you? In fact, the realization of just how powerful you are can make your head spin--your vibration soars! And "Oh, I just know this is the excellent person," [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v6LwivEBIoE ftp hosting sites] becomes your mantra. You start to see each and every other usually. You invest lots of time discussing every thing from your favorite color to foods and sharing life experiences. Where has this particular person been? Why did it take us so long to discover every other? In your thoughts and imagination, you can see the two of you with each other forever.<br><br>And then, it may possibly be weeks, or months later, you are NOT with each other and you wonder, "Did I do something incorrect? Is the Universe playing tricks on me? I believed this was THE A single. What happened?" They identified an individual else. Or you find out some thing about them that caused you to withdraw from them. Maybe you just drifted apart. One particular thing is accurate, the disappointment of this relationship has released a tirade of self-depreciation and reinforced the old tapes--"It may well occur for other people, but it will not come about for me" and "I've missed my one particular chance at correct really like!"<br><br>Let's look at three factors why a seemingly "ideal connection" may well not last forever:<br><br>Cause # 1<br><br>The Law of Attraction teaches us that we attract people, opportunities, conditions and things that are in harmony with our dominant vibration. What takes place, occasionally, is that that people are harmonious for a while, and then 1 individual makes a choice or changes and sets themselves on a path that no longer harmonizes with our vibration.<br><br>Purpose # two<br><br>You did not understand that some issues in a partnership are really important till the relationship ended. Do you keep in mind the lady who wrote to me in element 1 of this series? 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And the sooner, the easier the lesson.<br><br>I have a client, who is practically 60 years old, who is getting confronted with this lesson and it is so painful to watch her struggle with it. The Great NEWS is that our Greater Self only wants our highest very good and that incorporates:<br><br>Realizing yourself<br><br>ACCEPTING your self<br><br>HONORING yourself<br><br>TRUSTING oneself<br><br>LOVING yourself.<br><br>After we believe that we ARE magnificent, delicious, marvelously created spirits possessing a human knowledge--that there is Absolutely nothing Wrong with us--that we ARE Complete--that we don't need to have another human to make us whole--then we are ready for the most delightful, deep, satisfying private relationships. 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Now she has such a deep grasp of how faith, beliefs and thinking function that she is in a position to lift others to a larger level, extremely speedily. You can get in touch with Rebecca at Rebecca@YouCanHaveItAll.com or on her site at http://www.youcanhaveitall.com and sign up for her free Museletter.<br><br>Rebecca has also written a book named, Law of Attraction for Organization: How to produce a organization or attract a job you Adore! To find out much more about this book and other info examine out http://www.lawofattractionresources.com/
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