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| − | Your child seems to be dictating your every move, and actively restricting your movements.
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| − | Clingy toddlers translate to exhausted parents. During this phase, you may experience guilt, frustration, and sometimes anger because you want to break away from your child so you can breathe.
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| − | Let us look at this clingy behavior through my 5-Step System.
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| − | Step 1. Connect
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| − | I know when you have a clingy toddler, it seems like you are "over-connected". However, the steps in this system are the same for every age and in every situation.
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| − | With a young child, connecting means trying to put ourselves in their shoes. From your child's perspective of what is happening between you, once they are walking there is an abrupt change and life becomes scary. While your child was still crawling, you were right there so when they cried; you would pick them up and carry them with you.
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| − | All eyes on mum or dad
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| − | When your child starts walking, they look to you as their reference point to the world and their anchor of safety so they do not get lost. You are, in effect their GPS, global positioning system. Through your eyes, a brief separation seems small; from your child's eyes, the separation seems insurmountable at times. If your child cannot see you, they feel they are lost.
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| − | Toddlers send out honing signals and protest separation. You child may cling to your legs, throw themselves against the bathroom door, yell, whimper with tears streaming down their little cheeks and arms outstretched, or plead with you not to leave them. Your child has not yet developed "object constancy", a developmental stage when they know you exist even though they cannot see you. Until your toddler achieves object constancy, they feel if they cannot see you, that you are gone; they are lost and alone in the world.
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| − | Step 2. Calm
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| − | Your child is in a "panic" about the separation. For them to calm their panic, you need to remain calm. Remember, emotions are contagious, if you are calm and confident your child will calm more quickly and feel more confident. If you are hyper-excited, your child will quickly "catch" your hyper-excitement and become overly reactive.
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| − | Step 3. [http://www.lagbook.com/blogs/4522876 Learn More], [http://nephew6joke.xanga.com/772510294/check-this/ Full Article], [http://community.babycenter.com/journal/jail8puffin/9896989/useful_content useful site]Children just want to be like their parents. These all add to the child's learning experience.
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| − | There are some toddler laptops on the market which have over 80 fun packed learning activities on them. Your child will never get bored with so many different games to choose from. You will simply be amazed how fast your toddler picks things up and learns. Their brains will absorb so much information that they will be learning from the moment they press the power button on.
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| − | The benefits of having one of these toys are clear, your child will get a great head start in their academic life and will start learning vital things even before they get to nursery. These toys are highly recommended, highly reviewed and are very well priced.
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| − | Start your search today for the perfect laptop for your toddler and get them learning now!
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| − | One of the most difficult stages of raising a young child is from 18 months to 3 years old. During this time, it can feel like there is a ball and chain connecting you to your child.
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