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| + | • Move down a hall, behind the wall and quickly come back | ||
| + | The limit you were setting in the peek-a-boo game is; I stay here and you go away, you stay here and I go away. The peek-a-boo game helps make separation fun. Remember when setting the limits | ||
| + | • Stay out of power struggles by focusing on something fun | ||
| + | • You want the limits to be achievable without inducing panic | ||
| + | Finding the activity that is uniquely satisfying for your child may take some trial and error. If you are calm and confident, you communicate that emotion and the limit will become a built in part of your child's growing mastery of the world. Over time, you will provide choices of activities. | ||
| − | + | • Your child learns they get to have control by making a choice based on two options you have provided for what to do while you are gone | |
| + | • Giving options gives your child control | ||
| + | • You are involved and connected because you are the one providing options | ||
| − | + | Step 5. Fresh Start | |
| + | Whenever you get out of the bathroom, or arrive home from a short absence, no matter how difficult the separation process was for your child, reinforce your toddlers' growth and development with interest in what they did while you were absent. Forget any difficulty during your leaving process. You provide a fresh start. | ||
| − | + | • Praise and recognize your child's effort | |
| + | • Spend a little quality time with your child each time you return | ||
| − | + | Whenever your child's resources are challenged, point out and comment on your child's success. Fresh Starts are essential. Your child is learning mastery of their world without you as their honing device for a few minutes. There is no judgment of your child with "good boy" or "bad boy". | |
| − | + | Encouraging growth requires recognition for whatever effort you toddler made to cope with the stress of separation. The "good job" is recognition for whatever they accomplished on their project. "Wow, look at what you made." You want to reinforce your toddler's efforts to grow and manage distressing feelings. This trying developmental phase is the beginning of teaching good problem solving to your child. | |
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| + | Welcoming a new addition to your home is a joy, but when your baby cries and you don't know why it can cause stress for the parents and the child. | ||
| − | + | An infant cries the most during his/her first three months of life. The amount, volume, and length of crying will vary from child to child. Their crying will also change based on their needs. Paying attention to slight patterns in your babies cry can make a world of difference. | |
| − | + | Below are some helpful tips to put you at ease and help your baby stop crying. | |
| − | + | 1. Attention | |
| − | + | We all enjoy attention from the people we love. Especially babies. Your baby may be trying to express his or her desire for your affection. Try talking to your baby in a calming voice. Sharing some gentle kisses and hugs should also satisfy your babies desire for attention. You may even want to try giving your child a baby massage. A baby massage will fulfill your child's desire for touch, plus it is a great relaxation technique. | |
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Версия 18:43, 6 апреля 2013
• Move down a hall, behind the wall and quickly come back The limit you were setting in the peek-a-boo game is; I stay here and you go away, you stay here and I go away. The peek-a-boo game helps make separation fun. Remember when setting the limits
• Stay out of power struggles by focusing on something fun • You want the limits to be achievable without inducing panic
Finding the activity that is uniquely satisfying for your child may take some trial and error. If you are calm and confident, you communicate that emotion and the limit will become a built in part of your child's growing mastery of the world. Over time, you will provide choices of activities.
• Your child learns they get to have control by making a choice based on two options you have provided for what to do while you are gone • Giving options gives your child control • You are involved and connected because you are the one providing options
Step 5. Fresh Start Whenever you get out of the bathroom, or arrive home from a short absence, no matter how difficult the separation process was for your child, reinforce your toddlers' growth and development with interest in what they did while you were absent. Forget any difficulty during your leaving process. You provide a fresh start.
• Praise and recognize your child's effort • Spend a little quality time with your child each time you return
Whenever your child's resources are challenged, point out and comment on your child's success. Fresh Starts are essential. Your child is learning mastery of their world without you as their honing device for a few minutes. There is no judgment of your child with "good boy" or "bad boy".
Encouraging growth requires recognition for whatever effort you toddler made to cope with the stress of separation. The "good job" is recognition for whatever they accomplished on their project. "Wow, look at what you made." You want to reinforce your toddler's efforts to grow and manage distressing feelings. This trying developmental phase is the beginning of teaching good problem solving to your child.
Welcoming a new addition to your home is a joy, but when your baby cries and you don't know why it can cause stress for the parents and the child.
An infant cries the most during his/her first three months of life. The amount, volume, and length of crying will vary from child to child. Their crying will also change based on their needs. Paying attention to slight patterns in your babies cry can make a world of difference.
Below are some helpful tips to put you at ease and help your baby stop crying.
1. Attention
We all enjoy attention from the people we love. Especially babies. Your baby may be trying to express his or her desire for your affection. Try talking to your baby in a calming voice. Sharing some gentle kisses and hugs should also satisfy your babies desire for attention. You may even want to try giving your child a baby massage. A baby massage will fulfill your child's desire for touch, plus it is a great relaxation technique.
