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[http://mice12camel.xanga.com/772508109/read-this/ go to my blog], [http://journals.fotki.com/ease50bridge/get-more-info-651/entry/dfrrdgffbbwg/ Click Here], [http://canon-mcmillan.patch.com/events/our-site useful site]Your firstborn has been the center of your attention for many months. Now that a new member of the family is about to arrive in your home, he will need to share you with the new baby. He sees the baby as a competition for your attention and love. Your toddler fears the time when he'll be cast aside and the baby will forever take his place in your heart. From a toddler's perspective, this is a big change, and change is something that doesn't sit too well among children this age.

Your toddler probably has a lot of questions as to why you're bringing another baby in the house. Aside from thinking of a good answer for 'How was the baby made?' you need to prepare your child for the big transition. Below are some ways to help your tot handle the situation.

1. Guide Him Through His Expectations

There are probably a thousand things going on in your toddler's mind right now. To help him with the confusion, spend some time with him to talk about what to expect when the baby arrives. Give him a time frame when the baby is due (at summer, when school starts, etc.) and let him know what the baby will do for the next couple of months of its life (eat, sleep, cry, etc.). Doing so will help relieve his anxiousness over the situation.

2. Schedule Playtime With His Daddy or Another Adult in the Family

As you prepare for birthing, you'll have less time to spend with your firstborn, even more so once the new baby comes home. During this time, your toddler needs another adult to lean on. Let him spend some one-on-one time with his dad or a relative. This way, he becomes accustomed to the presence of another family member while you are busy tending to your newborn. Moreover, your toddler won't try to compete for your attention, since he's also busy with his own thing.

3. Bring in the Changes Gradually

Having a new baby at home brings in a lot of changes. Most likely, your child will have to move into a new room to make way for the arrival of the baby. If you plan on moving your toddler from a crib to a toddler bed, do so at least six weeks before you give birth. If you do this close to the baby's due date, he'll see the change as displacement and resent the baby for it. Set up the nursery a few weeks ahead so that he'll get used to seeing baby stuff inside your home.

4. Teach Him the Concept of Gentleness

Your toddler may not like the idea of sharing your love with the newest member of the family, but that doesn't mean he's not excited about becoming a big brother. Sometimes, this excitement can turn into rough play. Tell him that babies like gentle touches and have him practice on a doll or stuffed animal.

5. Give Him a Role in Taking Care of the Baby

Though he may not admit it, your toddler probably wants to take part in caring for his sibling.

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−	~~The limit you were setting in the peek-a-boo game is; I stay here and you go away, you stay here and I go away. The peek-a-boo game helps make separation fun. Remember when setting the limits~~
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−	Finding the activity that is uniquely satisfying for your child may take some trial and error. If you are calm and confident, you communicate that emotion and the limit will become a built in part of your child's growing mastery of the world. Over time, you will provide choices of activities.
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−	~~• Your child learns they get to have control by making a choice based on two options you have provided for what to do while you are gone~~
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−	Whenever you get out of the bathroom, or arrive home from a short absence, no matter how difficult the separation process was for your child, reinforce your toddlers' growth and development with interest in what they did while you were absent. Forget any difficulty during your leaving process. You provide a fresh start.
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−	Whenever your child's resources are challenged, point out and comment on your child's success. Fresh Starts are essential. Your child is learning mastery of their world without you as their honing device for a few minutes. There is no judgment of your child with "good boy" or "bad boy".
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−	Encouraging growth requires recognition for whatever effort you toddler made to cope with the stress of separation. The "good job" is recognition for whatever they accomplished on their project. "Wow, look at what you made." You want to reinforce your toddler's efforts to grow and manage distressing feelings. This trying developmental phase is the beginning of teaching good problem solving to your child.
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−	~~Welcoming a new addition to your home is a joy, but when your baby cries and you don't know why it can cause stress for the parents and the child.~~
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−	We all enjoy attention from the people we love. Especially babies. Your baby may be trying to express his or her desire for your affection. Try talking to your baby in a calming voice. Sharing some gentle kisses and hugs should also satisfy your babies desire for attention. You may even want to try giving your child a baby massage. A baby massage will fulfill your child's desire for touch, plus it is a great relaxation technique.
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-[http://mice12camel.xanga.com/772508109/read-this/ go to my blog], [http://journals.fotki.com/ease50bridge/get-more-info-651/entry/dfrrdgffbbwg/ Click Here], [http://canon-mcmillan.patch.com/events/our-site useful site]Your firstborn has been the center of your attention for many months. Now that a new member of the family is about to arrive in your home, he will need to share you with the new baby. He sees the baby as a competition for your attention and love. Your toddler fears the time when he'll be cast aside and the baby will forever take his place in your heart. From a toddler's perspective, this is a big change, and change is something that doesn't sit too well among children this age.
+&bull; Your child learns they get to have control by making a choice based on two options you have provided for what to do while you are gone
-Your toddler probably has a lot of questions as to why you're bringing another baby in the house. Aside from thinking of a good answer for 'How was the baby made?' you need to prepare your child for the big transition. Below are some ways to help your tot handle the situation.
+Step 5. Fresh Start
-. Guide Him Through His Expectations
+&bull; Praise and recognize your child's effort
-There are probably a thousand things going on in your toddler's mind right now. To help him with the confusion, spend some time with him to talk about what to expect when the baby arrives. Give him a time frame when the baby is due (at summer, when school starts, etc.) and let him know what the baby will do for the next couple of months of its life (eat, sleep, cry, etc.). Doing so will help relieve his anxiousness over the situation.
+Whenever your child's resources are challenged, point out and comment on your child's success. Fresh Starts are essential. Your child is learning mastery of their world without you as their honing device for a few minutes. There is no judgment of your child with "good boy" or "bad boy".
-. Schedule Playtime With His Daddy or Another Adult in the Family
+Encouraging growth requires recognition for whatever effort you toddler made to cope with the stress of separation. The "good job" is recognition for whatever they accomplished on their project. "Wow, look at what you made." You want to reinforce your toddler's efforts to grow and manage distressing feelings. This trying developmental phase is the beginning of teaching good problem solving to your child.
-As you prepare for birthing, you'll have less time to spend with your firstborn, even more so once the new baby comes home. During this time, your toddler needs another adult to lean on. Let him spend some one-on-one time with his dad or a relative. This way, he becomes accustomed to the presence of another family member while you are busy tending to your newborn. Moreover, your toddler won't try to compete for your attention, since he's also busy with his own thing.
+An infant cries the most during his/her first three months of life. The amount, volume, and length of crying will vary from child to child. Their crying will also change based on their needs. Paying attention to slight patterns in your babies cry can make a world of difference.
-. Bring in the Changes Gradually
+Below are some helpful tips to put you at ease and help your baby stop crying.
-Having a new baby at home brings in a lot of changes. Most likely, your child will have to move into a new room to make way for the arrival of the baby. If you plan on moving your toddler from a crib to a toddler bed, do so at least six weeks before you give birth. If you do this close to the baby's due date, he'll see the change as displacement and resent the baby for it. Set up the nursery a few weeks ahead so that he'll get used to seeing baby stuff inside your home.
+. Attention
-. Teach Him the Concept of Gentleness
+We all enjoy attention from the people we love. Especially babies. Your baby may be trying to express his or her desire for your affection. Try talking to your baby in a calming voice. Sharing some gentle kisses and hugs should also satisfy your babies desire for attention. You may even want to try giving your child a baby massage. A baby massage will fulfill your child's desire for touch, plus it is a great relaxation technique.
-Your toddler may not like the idea of sharing your love with the newest member of the family, but that doesn't mean he's not excited about becoming a big brother. Sometimes, this excitement can turn into rough play. Tell him that babies like gentle touches and have him practice on a doll or stuffed animal.
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